Monday, October 27th, 2008...7:09 pm
Missed connexions
Don Draper is mesmerising as he demonstrates the kind of sentimental bond you can develop with an inanimate object. “Nostalgia”, he calls it, “the pain from an old wound”.
“Nostalgia” is actually from the Greek meaning the pain from returning home, or the pain of memories.
has happened to me dozens of times, and I am sure it’s a highly relatable tale. That “what if” feeling tugs at your heart’s core, something akin to but not quite regret. I would not ordinarily think about this too deeply, as I’m of the opinion that past is past, and dwelling on it is unhelpful, because it can’t be changed. Still, self-reflexion can be enlightening, revealing our thought processes, purpose, and nature.
I distinguish it from regret, because “what if” is forward-looking. It is about what might be, not what could have been. It is hopeful rather than wistful. Today, I caught my regular 8.10 express to the City; fell asleep in Competition Law; was gifted an ice cream; had a chat with Mr. Japanese McGrumpypants in L & E that gave me a giddy little thrill; and discussed the not so fine points of Farah v Say-Dee
. I wouldn’t have changed it for all the trains in the world.
2 Comments
October 27th, 2008 at 10:12 pm
“I wouldn’t have changed it for all the trains in the world.”
Why would you want all the trains in the world anyway?
October 27th, 2008 at 10:34 pm
To build a Metro silly!
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